The first few dates started out with girls that I met through an old primary school friend, Ginny. It was great that I was at least meeting some girls than none. Unfortunately, none that I was attracted to. They were all rather NICE.
Thereby the PROBLEM! I had enough of niceties. I do niceties every freaking day in the office. I want interesting, creative, quirky and most of all FUN!...I might be generalizing here, but to put the average Singaporean girl in the same context as fun is to call your mom HOT. It is a rather squirmish feeling that makes you regret saying it afterwards. Coincidentally, I've had numerous other men from other nationalities who have concurred with my judgement. If one person can be wrong, can 10 other guys be wrong if they are all saying the same things?
Now the Singaporean women out there will definitely say the same things about Singaporean men and I can honestly say that I agree with them. Most Singaporean men are not FUN. That's like saying Singaporean men have a well known characteristic. NO WE DO NOT. Singaporean men can only be proud that they are realistic albeit prudish men. They are somewhat honest but totally lacking in creativity, out-of-this world skills outside of being reliable and responsible. Well some-what responsible. This stems from the fact that we are bound by the limited land space that we have and the uniformity of the SYSTEM that has been socially constructed by the government in order to create a society suited for non-extremism. Unfortunately extremism is the key to creating a diversity which will in the end add some character to a Singaporean man, in the same way adversity creates character.
So back to the dating scene.
